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A Matter of Life and Death
Violent hate crimes are the worst case scenario for gays battling discrimination


The names Matthew Shepard and Brandon Teena are familiar to us because of the widespread press coverage their murders generated. But for every incident that receives national attention there are dozens - or more - that go unreported or unrecognized. Members of the gay and lesbian community live every day with the knowledge that people they have never met are willing to target them for violence. Living in fear is not the answer; educating and protecting ourselves is.

The victims of hate crimes are not only injured physically, but psychologically. Studies have shown that gay men and lesbians who were attacked because of their sexual orientation suffer much more severe after effects than those who have been the victim of random incidents where their sexuality was not an issue. These after effects include severe depression and anxiety. Hate crimes against gays and lesbians are more common than you might think. A study conducted by psychologists at University of California Davis found that of 2,000 San Francisco-area gay men polled, more than one in five reported being physically assaulted at some point since the age of sixteen because of their orientation.

Support for Anti-Discrimination Laws
The fight against hate crimes got a huge boost when in 1997 then-President Bill Clinton sponsored a White House conference to address the issue. Since that time lawmakers have successfully passed legislation that make the penalties for hate crimes stiffer at both the state and federal levels, and that facilitate the gathering of information on the prevalence of hate crimes. Thirty-two states and the District of Columbia have hate crime laws that include sexual orientation in their wording; of these, ten also include gender identity. Fourteen states have hate crime laws on the books but do not include sexual orientation in their descriptions, and four U.S. states do not have any hate crime laws at all. To learn more about hate crime legislation in your state and how you can support such laws, visit the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force web site at www.thetaskforce.org.

Dealing with an Assault
All of us, regardless of our sexual orientation, are at risk of being assaulted at some point in our lives. We take the necessary precautions to keep ourselves safe, and most of the time this is enough. However if you are ever the victim of a crime, especially one that you feel was motivated by your sexuality, it is important that you report the incident to the authorities.

First and foremost, seek medical treatment. If you have a cell phone or can get to a phone, dial 911 and ask for an ambulance. If you are able to drive yourself, go immediately to the nearest emergency room. Even if you think you are alright, you may have sustained injuries that need attention. The hospital will also be able to put you in touch with a counselor who can help you come to terms with what you've experienced.

Next, contact the police department to report the crime. You may want to press charges against your attacker; even if you don't, a police report might be necessary for you to receive coverage from your medical insurance. Be sure to get the responding officer's name and badge number in case you need to speak to him or her again. Obtain a copy of the officer's report for your own records and be sure to let the officer know if you wish to indicate that this was a hate or bias crime.

If at any time you feel that your report is not being taken seriously or that the officer in question is not helping you, file a complaint with the police department. You might also wish to engage a lawyer to be sure that your interests are represented.

For more information about hate crimes and their effect on the gay and lesbian community, visit www.hatecrime.org, www.aclu.org, or www.glaad.org.

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