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Lesbian and Gay Pride - Essential for Liberation and Equal Rights?

I have to admit that I love Gay Pride; I love going to watch the amazing floats and carnival procession, the outrageous and often very revealing costumes, and the fabulous party atmosphere that always ensues. It literally fills me with tears when I see the endless sea of rainbow flags, which are the symbol of Gay Pride, being waved vigorously along the streets. I also adore seeing the smiles and laughter of so many tens of thousands of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered men and women all at once. The feeling of freedom and liberation that we all share, even if it's just for the one day or week when Gay Pride takes place in our country, town or city, unites us in happiness!

However, some degree of sadness also churns my stomach as I have begun to realize that many of the new generation of lesbians do not even know the real reasons behind Gay Pride; they just see it as an excuse for an amazing lesbian party! Whilst it's great to have Gay Pride and have a great time, I think that every single lesbian out there should understand its origins, what it stands for, and why we still need Gay Pride parades and events today! This article acts as the perfect reminder as to why Gay Pride exists.

Where Does Gay Pride Originate From?

The first Gay Pride marches took place in New York City in 1969 and was a protest against discrimination and violence towards lesbians and gays. It was set up as a direct result of the actions taken by New York Police who raided a gay and lesbian bar called the Stonewall Inn for no real other reason apart from the fact that it was a gay and lesbian bar (although I seem to remember that they were using some excuse as enforcing an alcohol control law that was seldom ever enforced). The patrons were so fed up that they actually rebelled and fought back against the police and for days afterwards there were protests, which became known as the Stonewall Rebellion.

This was seen as the first step towards fighting for equality, liberation and civil rights for the gay and lesbian community and has been commemorated every year since with a Gay Pride festival and march. Gay Pride is also celebrated all over the world, in major cities such as Sydney, Amsterdam, and London. The first Gay Pride march in London took place in 1972 and was organized by the Gay Liberation Front.

Is Gay Pride Now Just An Excuse For One Big Party?

If I was an outsider looking in I would definitely say that Gay Pride is just an excuse for one big bash of colorful vulgarity. But as a lesbian looking beneath the façade of rainbow flags and flamboyant queers that catch media attention I know that it's much, much more than that. I think that it gives us an opportunity to illustrate that gays and lesbians are here to stay in society, and that we have just as much right to be on this earth as every heterosexual person that exists. It allows us to celebrate the diversity of the human race and send out a yearly reminder that we are only human and deserve just as many civil liberties and rights.

As for whether Gay Pride should still take place then I think the answer has to be a resounding YES! Even if you are lucky enough to live in the UK, where the Civil Partnership has been introduced, we are still discriminated against because of our sexual preference. I like to think that Gay Pride also takes place to raise awareness of the plight of gay and lesbian people in countries where they are stoned to death, or executed because of their sexuality. Also, when I look closer to home, there's such a long way to go in the USA, too. There is only one state in the whole of the country that allows gay marriages and we are still not allowed to jointly adopt in most states simply because we are in a same-sex couple. I think that Gay Pride provides us with a worldwide platform to express our desires and fight for our civil rights. The next time you go to Gay Pride enjoy yourself and remember the underlying cause. Worldwide gay liberation is what we want to achieve and this will certainly take decades, if not hundreds of years, to realize.

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